--- product_id: 1695642 title: "For Men Only, Revised and Updated Edition: A Straightforward Guide to the Inner Lives of Women" price: "COP 83988" currency: COP in_stock: true reviews_count: 13 url: https://www.desertcart.co/products/1695642-for-men-only-revised-and-updated-edition-a-straightforward-guide store_origin: CO region: Colombia --- # Perfect gift choice Data-driven insights Revised & updated edition For Men Only, Revised and Updated Edition: A Straightforward Guide to the Inner Lives of Women **Price:** COP 83988 **Availability:** ✅ In Stock ## Summary > 📘 Decode her world, elevate your bond — the ultimate relationship playbook! ## Quick Answers - **What is this?** For Men Only, Revised and Updated Edition: A Straightforward Guide to the Inner Lives of Women - **How much does it cost?** COP 83988 with free shipping - **Is it available?** Yes, in stock and ready to ship - **Where can I buy it?** [www.desertcart.co](https://www.desertcart.co/products/1695642-for-men-only-revised-and-updated-edition-a-straightforward-guide) ## Best For - Customers looking for quality international products ## Why This Product - Free international shipping included - Worldwide delivery with tracking - 15-day hassle-free returns ## Key Features - • **Gift with Impact:** A thoughtful present that sparks meaningful conversations and growth. - • **Cross-Gender Appeal:** Valuable for men and women alike—build empathy and connection. - • **Updated Wisdom for Today:** Revised edition ensures fresh, relevant insights for modern couples. - • **Boost Communication Skills:** Practical advice that extinguishes arguments before they start. - • **Unlock Relationship Clarity:** Grounded in real statistics, not just opinions, for authentic understanding. ## Overview For Men Only, Revised and Updated Edition by Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn is a bestselling relationship guide that uses real-world data to reveal the inner emotional lives of women. Designed primarily for men, this edition offers fresh insights and practical tools to improve communication and deepen understanding between partners. Widely praised for its humor, clarity, and actionable advice, it’s a must-read for couples seeking to strengthen their connection and avoid common misunderstandings. ## Description Finally, you can understand her! This updated edition of the groundbreaking classic explains how to achieve better communication with your girlfriend, fiancée, or wife—from the authors of For Women Only. More than 2 million copies sold in the series! “Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn have unearthed a treasure chest of insights that are not only eye-opening, but life-changing.”—Andy Stanley, senior pastor, North Point Community Church If you’re like most men, you’ve burned up lots of energy trying to figure out what a woman wants, what makes her tick, how to make her happy. The good news: success is simpler than you ever thought. In For Men Only, Jeff and Shaunti Feldhahn reveal the eye-opening truths and simple acts that will radically improve your relationship with the woman you love. For example: • Why she can’t “just not think about” something that’s bothering her • How to get her real answers without games • How your provider instinct can actually cause her heartache—and what to do about it • Why listening to her feelings is so hard for a guy, and a fix-it plan that works • Why her “I do” at the altar will always mean, “do you?” and the answer that rocks her world Now updated with the latest scientific research to explain the fabulous female brain plus an all-new chapter that shows how to decode her most baffling behavior, For Men Only is your roadmap to making her happy. Review: This book, along with For Women Only, should be mandatory in any-premarital counseling - I recommend this book to just about every person I know. The research that this book uses is well-done, and it conveys the information efficiently and in a way that is easy to digest. I am a slow reader, and even I was able to finish the book in no more than about ten hours. The book provides insights on the ways that women think that are both different and counterintuitive to men. When I mention the findings of this book to other men, they are either surprised or they tell me that they agree with me. The ones who agree with me are either married for a while or have been in a long-term relationship for a while. I love this book so much because it conveys the differences in the ways that women think that a man would otherwise not even consider unless he was prompted to believe that a woman would see the same situation differently. In other words, a man might look at a situation or hear something that a woman says, and it would not even occur to him that a woman would think of the situation differently because his way of viewing the situation seems so obvious to him. And similarly, the woman does not think to indicate to him that she views the situation differently because it does not even occur to her that the man could view it in a way that is different from hers. As a result, well-meaning men and women often talk past each other in these circumstances. This book, and its companion book For Women Only, do in several hours what otherwise takes years; it helps men and women to understand how they think differently so that they can communicate well. I can say from personal experience that this book has profoundly improved my ability to communicate with and even understand women. This book will not solve all of your relationship or marriage woes, but it will provide an excellent foundation on which you can understand the women in your life, what they mean when they say or do certain things, and clarify some of their behaviors that are often confusing to us men. Having said that, be warned that this book makes claims about what women say that they want. In that specific regard, the book is accurate; it accurately conveys what women say that they want. However, be warned that, in some circumstances, they might not do what you want just because you give them what they say they want, or they might even be resistant to receiving the thing that they say that they wanted. This problem, however, is obviously not a problem with the book, but rather a problem of self-awareness, and unfortunately, men are no more immune from this problem than women, so it is not a unique problem. Even so, this book is truly excellent. It should be required reading for anyone in premarital counseling. I can almost guarantee that this book will change your life. And it's a short and easy read as well; it is not dense or difficult to understand at all. So, of course, I highly recommend it. Get copies for your friend too, while you're at it. Review: Absolutely Love This Book - This is one of my favorite relationship books and I recommend it to every couple. I am the wife and read this to see if this was applicable to me, and I will say that I learned more about myself than I thought I would. I realized what I was feeling and finally how to convey my feelings thanks to this book. I gave it to my husband to read, telling him if he really wanted to understand me, this book explains it. Since he has read it, he really has been applying it and we have greatly improved our communication. Many a dumb argument has been extinguished at the start and I feel the care. In turn, I had purchased and read the Only for Women book, and with the knowledge of both books in my arsenal, I am able to convey my feelings better and understand why I react to some things, myself. I also really appreciate how this book offers statistics and common answers among common people in order to find out why the majority of people feel and react the way they do, rather than a therapist offering their opinions. I don't think I've gotten such accurate answers before. I also found this book to be funny and I genuinely enjoyed reading it. This one more so than Only for Women. Maybe I have more of a man's brain lol I needed the humor and encouragement within this book from the author to help me keep reading. (Only for Women is a little more serious and emotional.) Even if it isn't 100 percent applicable to you and your relationship, it is still a great read with valuable tools that could even help with any relationship between men and women. Understanding the base of a man's mind and the possible likely reasons behind his actions is such a good feeling. I apply it to my father and brothers, even, since they too, are men. ## Features - Author - Feldhahn S & J - Publisher - Multnomah Publishers - Great Gift Idea. - Satisfaction Ensured. ## Technical Specifications | Specification | Value | |---------------|-------| | Best Sellers Rank | #5,763 in Books ( See Top 100 in Books ) #24 in Christian Marriage (Books) #49 in Marriage #51 in Love & Romance (Books) | | Customer Reviews | 4.7 out of 5 stars 3,593 Reviews | ## Images ![For Men Only, Revised and Updated Edition: A Straightforward Guide to the Inner Lives of Women - Image 1](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/713gwLEDIvL.jpg) ## Customer Reviews ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ This book, along with For Women Only, should be mandatory in any-premarital counseling *by A***R on January 16, 2026* I recommend this book to just about every person I know. The research that this book uses is well-done, and it conveys the information efficiently and in a way that is easy to digest. I am a slow reader, and even I was able to finish the book in no more than about ten hours. The book provides insights on the ways that women think that are both different and counterintuitive to men. When I mention the findings of this book to other men, they are either surprised or they tell me that they agree with me. The ones who agree with me are either married for a while or have been in a long-term relationship for a while. I love this book so much because it conveys the differences in the ways that women think that a man would otherwise not even consider unless he was prompted to believe that a woman would see the same situation differently. In other words, a man might look at a situation or hear something that a woman says, and it would not even occur to him that a woman would think of the situation differently because his way of viewing the situation seems so obvious to him. And similarly, the woman does not think to indicate to him that she views the situation differently because it does not even occur to her that the man could view it in a way that is different from hers. As a result, well-meaning men and women often talk past each other in these circumstances. This book, and its companion book For Women Only, do in several hours what otherwise takes years; it helps men and women to understand how they think differently so that they can communicate well. I can say from personal experience that this book has profoundly improved my ability to communicate with and even understand women. This book will not solve all of your relationship or marriage woes, but it will provide an excellent foundation on which you can understand the women in your life, what they mean when they say or do certain things, and clarify some of their behaviors that are often confusing to us men. Having said that, be warned that this book makes claims about what women say that they want. In that specific regard, the book is accurate; it accurately conveys what women say that they want. However, be warned that, in some circumstances, they might not do what you want just because you give them what they say they want, or they might even be resistant to receiving the thing that they say that they wanted. This problem, however, is obviously not a problem with the book, but rather a problem of self-awareness, and unfortunately, men are no more immune from this problem than women, so it is not a unique problem. Even so, this book is truly excellent. It should be required reading for anyone in premarital counseling. I can almost guarantee that this book will change your life. And it's a short and easy read as well; it is not dense or difficult to understand at all. So, of course, I highly recommend it. Get copies for your friend too, while you're at it. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Absolutely Love This Book *by S***N on April 26, 2023* This is one of my favorite relationship books and I recommend it to every couple. I am the wife and read this to see if this was applicable to me, and I will say that I learned more about myself than I thought I would. I realized what I was feeling and finally how to convey my feelings thanks to this book. I gave it to my husband to read, telling him if he really wanted to understand me, this book explains it. Since he has read it, he really has been applying it and we have greatly improved our communication. Many a dumb argument has been extinguished at the start and I feel the care. In turn, I had purchased and read the Only for Women book, and with the knowledge of both books in my arsenal, I am able to convey my feelings better and understand why I react to some things, myself. I also really appreciate how this book offers statistics and common answers among common people in order to find out why the majority of people feel and react the way they do, rather than a therapist offering their opinions. I don't think I've gotten such accurate answers before. I also found this book to be funny and I genuinely enjoyed reading it. This one more so than Only for Women. Maybe I have more of a man's brain lol I needed the humor and encouragement within this book from the author to help me keep reading. (Only for Women is a little more serious and emotional.) Even if it isn't 100 percent applicable to you and your relationship, it is still a great read with valuable tools that could even help with any relationship between men and women. Understanding the base of a man's mind and the possible likely reasons behind his actions is such a good feeling. I apply it to my father and brothers, even, since they too, are men. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ basic BUT essential guide to making any woman HAPPY *by G***N on November 6, 2010* INTRO: Following the popularity of "Foe Women Only", the Feldhahn team decided to answer the demand (of women ... and men) for a men's version book. Through extensive field research Jeff Feldhahn, came up with 6 areas that are essential for any married couple, areas that are not only important but also critical/imperative to a wife's happiness: "Reassurance," "Emotions," "Security," "Listening," Sex, Beauty. AUTHORS: Authors write from a Christian perspective (meaning, at seldom places they quote the Bible or biblical principles for supporting the values espoused herein). Tha authors also write in a very easy and non-judgemental and common-sense language. In the sex chapter, the authors recommend a couple of books, and also throught the whole book, there are several mentions and reference to read "Love & Respect: The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs" by Emerson Eggerichs. CONTENT: I will just quote some part to give you an idea/flavor/gist of the subject material: ¤ CH.2 "Reassurances" or "The Deal is Never Closed" - "Even if you relationship is great, your mate likely has a fundamental insecurity about your love - and when that insecurity is triggered, she may respond in ways that confuse or dismay you until she feels reassured that you love her." Hidden triggers (of her insecurity): conflict, man's withdrawal, silence, her "emotional bank account" is depleted, man is absent a lot, unresolved relationship issues. Practical Guide to turning off the red warning light: 1.Regular reassurance - 5 ways, 2.Persistent Pursuit. ¤ CH.3 "Emotions" or "Windows ... Open!" - "Women deal with multiple thoughts and emotions from their past and present all the time, at the same time - and these can't be easily dismissed." Sequential Strategies for Sequential Minds: 1.Rethink your assumptions about how she thinks. 2.Realize you may not 'be' the issue, even though you're affected by the issue. 3.Be her hero and help her clear those distracting or painful windows so they don't keep coming back. ¤ CH.4 "Security" or "Your Real Job is Closer To Home" - "Your woman needs emotional security and closeness with you so much that she will endure financial insecurity to get it." Money talks but 'emotional security' sings. What Security Means to Her: 1.See feels secure when you two feel close. So what builds closeness ? 2.She feels secure when you make time together a priority, 3.She feels secure when you demonstrate your commitment, 4.She feels secure when you are active in parenting and the life of the home, 5.She feels secure when you do make an effort to provide. ¤ CH.5 "Listening" or "Listening IS the solution" - When she is sharing an emotional problem, her feelings and her desire to be heard are much more important than the problem itself. She doesn't want you to fix it. How To Listen (think baseball) 1st base: Give her your full physical attention, 2nd base: Give her your full mental attention, 3rd base: Listen for the right thing - how she feels about the problem, home plate: acknowledge and affirm her feelings about the problem. ¤ CH.6 Sex or With Sex, Her "No" Doesn't Mean You - The frequency ga is usually NOT because a wife doesn't desire her husband. ¤ CH.7 Beauty or The Girl In The Mirror - "Inside your smart, secure wife lives a little girl who deeply needs to know that you find her beautiful - and that you only have eyes for her." The ugly truth about female beauty in our world. The hammer drops: looking elsewhere. CONCLUSION: Ultimatelly this book (as its partner "For Women Only") is about 2 things: a) How much men didn't know that they didn't know (about women) b) How much the relationship has changed once men understood their woman's innner life - and started doing things differently. ## Frequently Bought Together - For Men Only, Revised and Updated Edition: A Straightforward Guide to the Inner Lives of Women - For Women Only, Revised and Updated Edition: What You Need to Know About the Inner Lives of Men - For Women Only, For Men Only, and For Couples Only Participant's Guide: Three-in-One Relationship Study Resource --- ## Why Shop on Desertcart? - 🛒 **Trusted by 1.3+ Million Shoppers** — Serving international shoppers since 2016 - 🌍 **Shop Globally** — Access 737+ million products across 21 categories - 💰 **No Hidden Fees** — All customs, duties, and taxes included in the price - 🔄 **15-Day Free Returns** — Hassle-free returns (30 days for PRO members) - 🔒 **Secure Payments** — Trusted payment options with buyer protection - ⭐ **TrustPilot Rated 4.5/5** — Based on 8,000+ happy customer reviews **Shop now:** [https://www.desertcart.co/products/1695642-for-men-only-revised-and-updated-edition-a-straightforward-guide](https://www.desertcart.co/products/1695642-for-men-only-revised-and-updated-edition-a-straightforward-guide) --- *Product available on Desertcart Colombia* *Store origin: CO* *Last updated: 2026-05-27*